That's not what I'm saying.

Lets say you buy a really nice sweater, and before you can wear it, a friend asks to wear it.

If you've already worn it, it's one thing to loan it out, but if you've never worn it, that's another story.

I have yet to make a potshot list from the past, I'm certainly not going to aim the potshot at myself first.

And frankly, I doubt you'll find very many, if any.